I was visiting friends recently. One of them commented on my car. Then he reminded me. I’d been saying for years that I’d own that exact model one day. I’d completely forgotten. But there it was. Sitting in the driveway. I’d only bought it a few months earlier. No big moment. Just… done. Looking back, it made me think. I wasn’t very specific. Didn’t write it down. Didn’t set a timeline. So it took a while. But it still happened. Which raises an interesting point. How often do people say things like: “I never win anything.” And then keep repeating it? That’s a form of goal setting too. Just in the wrong direction. Because the words you repeat shape what you expect. And what you expect shapes what you do. So it might be worth paying attention to what you’re telling yourself. And maybe being a bit more intentional about it. Regards, P.S. If you want to be clearer about where you’re heading: https://brentm.systeme.io/calculator It’ll help you think it through properly. |
